Deciding to get married is the easy part. Once it comes time to start organizing the event, you’re presented with infinite choices that can become overwhelming. In this post, you’ll discover the different types of wedding ceremonies so you can decide which wedding ceremony is best for you.
7 Types of Wedding Ceremonies
One of the earliest you need to nail down is the type of wedding ceremony you want. To make this decision easier, here’s a list of the 7 main types of wedding ceremonies along with what makes them unique.
These are perhaps the most obvious types of weddings to explain. Generally speaking, both people are part of the same religion and the ceremony takes place in the relevant religious building.
You have a fair amount of control over the look of the ceremony (flowers, decorations, etc.) but the actual ceremony itself will usually follow a standard pattern.
An interfaith ceremony is designed for partners who are religious but belong to different religions. It’ll include relevant practices from both that you can decide upon during planning.
Due to the incorporation of two religions, this kind of wedding ceremony will typically be held in a non-religious space.
A non-denominational ceremony is suitable when one (or both) of you is spiritual but perhaps don’t belong to an official religion. The ceremony will mention God but not tie it to a specific religious practice.
Like an interfaith ceremony, this will usually be held in a non-religious space.
A humanist ceremony is specifically non-religious and is based on the principles of humanism. It focuses more on the couple and their relationship than the couple’s relation to spiritual practice.
You’ll typically have a celebrant or officiant conduct the ceremony rather than a minister.
Civil ceremonies take place in public buildings, such as courthouses and city halls. The ceremony involves signing the marriage certificate and pledging vows, although it’s more rigid than a religious ceremony.
This kind of service is suitable for those who aren’t as fussed about the ceremony itself because it’s simple and often the most affordable option.
As the name implies, a same-sex ceremony is for same-sex couples. It usually involves practices similar to humanist and/or civil ceremonies, although the service itself will often contain standard wedding customs.
Same-sex marriage may take place in a religious location but will often happen in a non-religious space.
If you’re feeling really different, go for a destination ceremony. This involves traveling somewhere else (usually abroad) to get married. Obviously, this is going to be much more expensive, but it’ll be an experience you’ll always remember.
A destination ceremony will often give you lots of control over everything, which can be a blessing or a curse!
It’s Your Big Day
Choosing the right kind of wedding ceremony is based on two main points: your religious views and your budget. Some types of weddings are more affordable than others, but the most important thing is that both partners are happy and have a wedding to remember.
After all, it’s your big day, so make sure the type of ceremony you choose aligns with the two of you!